Spring - Summer 2026
’48 Suzonne Stewart Taylor ’48 of Severna Park, MD, September 27, 1926 - March 1, 2021
’50 Ann Elizabeth Faquin McGuire
Ann Elizabeth Faquin McGuire, 96, died peacefully at home on November 23, 2024. She was born May 20, 1928, in Clarksville, TN. She was preceded in death by her husband of almost 63 years Mike “Mickey” McGuire; her parents, Arthur Charles Faquin and Annie Mai Moore Faquin; her brother, Arthur C. Faquin, Jr. (Francis) and her sister Ruth Faquin Torri (Al). Ann grew up on Mignon in Memphis, attended Snowden Elementary and Junior High, before moving on to Central High School. Upon graduation, she began her collegiate career at Southwestern, (Rhodes) before, at the insistence of a friend, deciding to transfer to Centre College from which she graduated in 1950 as a math major. While at Centre, she met Mike and shortly after they graduated, they were married and returned to Memphis to begin their lives together. Through the years she taught school, was a full-time homemaker, and when Mike’s World Book office opened, she used her organizational skills to help efficiently run the office for nearly 25 years. At Lindenwood Christian Church, Ann was an integral part of the Friendship Class that Mike taught for 40 years and attended Collierville Christian Church and Water Christian Church.
She is survived by her son Kelly McGuire (Nancy); her daughter Marjorie McGuire; and her son Mark McGuire; three grandchildren Kristen Ireland (Jeremy); Michael McGuire (Lydia) and Britton McGuire (Elle); and three great-grandchildren Lillie and Annie Ireland and Archie McGuire all of Memphis; plus, many nieces and nephews she adored and that she tried to bring together whenever she possibly could. For over thirty years, Big Daddy and Grandma gathered the entire family for dinner on Sunday evening in their home and Grandma continued the tradition until the present time. Mom loved the Lord and along with Dad began a tradition of church going that taught our family about the saving grace of Jesus Christ so we know that we will see and be with her and Dad and all the saints to worship God for eternity.
’53 C. Douglas Buford, Jr. of Worthington, OH, November 1931- July 1, 2025. He was a member of Alpha Tau Omega Fraternity. He is survived by his brother Emmett Buford ’57.
’53 Louis J. Weber - born March 12, 1932, in Dallas, Texas, passed away on July 24, 2024, in Dallas. He graduated from Highland Park High School, SMU and SMU Law. Preceded in death by his parents, Louis J. Weber Sr. and Juanita Montroy Weber, and his beloved wife of 66 years, Margaret Ann "Dudie" Brannin Weber. Survived by his sister Patricia Weber Broadnax; son Daniel B. Weber and wife Win and their children Jackson and Genevieve; son Christopher M. Weber and his wife Joy; son Louis J. Weber III and his son Louie and his wife Caroline, and Andrew; daughter Marie Elizabeth "Cissy" Redus and her children Charlie and his wife Ashlee, Ann and her husband Roland, Bette and her husband Lee, and Sam and his wife Arabella; son John Boone Weber and wife Jeannie and their children Katlin and Boone; son David S. Weber and wife Eileen and their children Tom and wife Katherine, Lilianne and Katherine; son Samuel A. Weber and wife Christy and their children Joe, Ben, Luke, Margaret and Rachel; great-grandchildren Tori, Dorothy, Virginia, Christopher, Libby and Robbie. Louis was, first and foremost, a fair-minded man, humble to a fault and loyal to the core.
He was an eternal optimist, though that optimism was tempered by pragmatism. He fancied life a bed of roses but cautioned "even a bed of roses has thorns." His late wife Dudie was, to the end, a cornerstone of his life. The family they raised, and the love they shared, was a light that shined on him every morning and well into night, even after her passing; an ocean so vast, he mused, "you could almost drown in it." He longed to be with her every day since her passing and now, he is. He once cautioned an obituary writer that a "litany of accomplishments" in his public sendoff would be a "pain in the ass." That aside, Louis, humbly and steadfastly, left a legacy in his 67-year legal career. For fear of violating his dying wishes, here is a list of accomplishments directly from a 1993 article penned by him in the SMU Law Review: "He has served as president of the Dallas Bar Association and chairman of the State Bar of Texas Board of Directors, among other posts. He received the President's Award from the State Bar of Texas in 1981. Louis Weber was a Distinguished Alumnus of Southern Methodist University School of Law in 1987." What's not detailed in that list and is perhaps more illustrative is his tireless work as an advocate to those who couldn't afford or weren't offered legal advice.
Throughout the 70’s and 80’s he tried eminent domain cases to ensure fair housing practices were upheld, and maintained, in low-income neighborhoods in South Dallas often without pay. In the 80’s, when the AIDS epidemic ripped through Dallas, he helped found what's now the Legal Hospice of Texas, ensuring that all Dallasites, including those with terminal HIV, had access to end-of-life legal services free of charge. In his own profession, he led a charge to allow clients to file grievances against attorneys in Texas, preserving the integrity of his beloved profession and guaranteeing a fair trial on either side of the bench for Texans of any stripe. "That's what we're here for," he said once, "to help folks get better, just a little better, if we can." With Dudie and his family, Louis, known as Papa to his beloved grandkids, spent summers at Elk Creek Ranch in Colorado. It's an aspen-shrouded home Dudie and he cherished for decades with his kids and grandkids, along with his best friends and their families. It was a sanctuary he held dear and a community that held him just the same. The man always had a meandering joke, whether about a millipede's rushing yards in a football game, seagulls and bagels, or a job-seeking headless horseman. He had an endless stable of them and, as he said, "they always come back around." If you met him, even briefly, you probably heard one. He coveted progress in every sense, seeking to go ever-onward, ever-upward and always with a stiff upper lip, though always with a wry sense of humor and bone-deep empathy. To his friends and family, he was a father, a teacher, a role model and a constant shoulder on which to lean. He had an endless fascination in people and a curiosity that lasted all 92 years of his life. To his legal colleagues, he was a singular, generational example of integrity and temperance, though he may object to that characterization. "When I'm gone," he said, "I want to look down and [say I] influenced something" and made things just a little better. One could argue without objection he did.
’55 Betty Carol Germany, a gifted pianist, and organist whose music touched countless hearts, passed away peacefully on January 25, 2026, at the age of 92. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 69 years, Reg Germany ’55. A lifelong lover of music, Betty began organ studies at 16 while continuing her piano training. She won prestigious competitions in North Carolina as a teenager and went on to earn her Bachelor of Music in Piano Performance from Rhodes College, with further studies at Salem College, and workshops in Paris, where she played historic organs including those at Notre Dame and Sacr -Coeur. Among her most cherished musical experiences was performing on the mighty Wurlitzer organ at the Memphis Orpheum Theatre, whose grandeur and expressive power matched her own joy in sharing music. Whether seated at a world-famous instrument or a small church, Betty played with the same enthusiasm, heart, and deep sense of calling. Though trained in classical masters, her greatest joy came from sharing hymns, sacred music, old standards, and Broadway tunes from the 1930’s and 1950’s whatever her audiences requested.
She served faithfully as Organist and Minister of Music at Rosemark First Presbyterian Church from 1986 until 2026, led workshops, judged talent competitions, taught organ and piano, composed, arranged, and recorded albums that reached a loyal base of listeners. Warm, welcoming, and never one to meet a stranger, Betty had a gift for connection. She greeted everyone with genuine interest and the earnest question; How can I pray for you? A reflection of her deep faith and loving spirit. Her greatest joy was her family. Betty is survived by her three sons and their wives Rex (Tammy), Jeff (Margo), and Brad (Jane) Germany along with six grandchildren and sixteen great grandchildren, with one more on the way. She cherished every moment spent together, whether at home, on cruises, or traveling to visit loved ones across the country. Betty’s life was a beautiful harmony of faith, music, and family. She will be remembered for the joy she brought into every room, the encouragement she gave so freely, and the love she poured without measure into those around her. God is good.
’57 Donald L. Parker ’57 of Greenwich, CT, January 13, 1935 - May 10, 2025. He was a member of Alpha Tau Omega Fraernity, Rhodes Singers, and Rhodes Student Government.
’59 Elizabeth “Betty Jean/BJ” Jean Payne Dorris ’58, a native of Clarksdale, MS, recent resident of Spanish Fort, Alabama, and longtime resident of Brandon Mississippi, Winona Mississippi, and Greenwood Mississippi, passed away on Wednesday, June 25, 2025, at the age of 89. BJ was a kindergarten teacher in Greenwood, MS, and Winona, MS, and later a church secretary for St. Stephens Church in Flowood, MS. She was a member of Lakeside Presbyterian Church prior to moving to Spanish Fort, AL. Betty loved to travel and saw much of the world with her husband of over 60 years, Jimmy, whom she met while working for the Social Security Administration in Greenwood, Mississippi. She was an accomplished artist with a gift for portraiture. Over the course of her life, she explored pastels, watercolors, and oil painting. BJ participated in many local art shows winning numerous awards. Friends and family commissioned hundreds of portraits from her of their loved ones over the years.
BJ was preceded in death by her mother, Evalyn Jones Payne; her father, James Hamilton Payne; and her husband, James Franklin Dorris. She is survived by her children, James “Jay” Dorris, Jr., and his wife, Jennifer Dorris, John Dorris, and his wife Denise Arial Dorris, and Elizabeth Dorris Payne, and her husband Jason Payne; her grandchildren, Michael Payne, Lucy Payne, Anna Dorris, Jackson Dorris, James Dorris III, and Evalyn Dorris; and her siblings, James (Jimmy) Payne and Lucy Payne Tharpe. She also had innumerable special friends over the years, as well her dogs with creative names like Hungry, Lady, and Brown Dog (reportedly stuck with that name because her kids would not agree on a name).
’59 Sally Dame Roberds ’59, a lifelong Memphian, died September 12, 2025. She was born on August 25, 1937. She was the daughter of Zella Gilmore Dame and Harry Newton Dame, former Clerk of Session at Idlewild. She attended Central High School and graduated Southwestern (now Rhodes College) and was a lifelong member of Idlewild Presbyterian Church. She lived a loving life with her family and friends. Whether at Idlewild, Les Passe, Silver Sneakers, Lichterman Nature Center, or a family beach vacation, she deeply appreciated and was appreciated by all that she met. We share particular gratitude for her loving neighbors and caretakers, who showed tremendous grace and love in her last weeks. She was preceded by her parents and her husband, William Dodds Roberds, Sr. ’49. She is survived by her son, William Dodds Roberds, Jr., and her daughters, Sara (Sissy) Carpenter (Doug), and Ellen Roberds, and five grandchildren: Katie Elizabeth and Wallace Carpenter and Abram, Obed and Niko Bingham of Memphis. V
’59 Dowen E. Snyder ’59, 89, passed away due to complications from Alzheimer’s disease on January 1, 2026. Buck was born in Memphis on December 29, 1936, to father, William Ervin Snyder, and mother, Naomi Holly Nesbit Snyder. Buck was president of his senior class at Whitehaven High School (1955), received his B.A. in Biology from Rhodes College (1959), and received his medical degree from University of Tennessee at Memphis (1963). Following completion of his residency in neurosurgery, Buck served in the U.S. Army, achieving the rank of captain from 1966 with service in Fort Lewis, Washington, and Vietnam in 1969. Upon completion of his military service in 1971, Buck practiced with the Canale, Snyder, Kellett, and Nadel Neurosurgery Group and the Semmes-Murphy Group for over thirty years at Memphis area hospitals, retiring in 2000.
Buck was preceded in death by his parents, older sister Martha, younger brother Ernie, brother-in-law John Hastings, and wife Carol. He is survived by his younger sister Margaret, his sister-in-law Judy, his son Scott, his daughter-in-law SoRhym, his daughter Joy, granddaughters Elliana (17) and Elyssa (14), and many members of his extended family. Buck was an avid fan and supporter of Memphis Tigers football and basketball and a member of Bellevue Baptist Church, where he was an active member of the Brand Class for many years. Donations in Buck’s memory may be made to Insight Memory Care in Fairfax, Virginia, where he was a cherished member for five years prior to his death. The family also wishes to express gratitude to the staff and management of Great Falls Assisted Living, which provided him with care and love during the last 2 ½ years of his life.
’59 Sandra McLaren Wiese ’59, April 1937- December 7, 2025. She was a member of Delta Delta Delta Fraternity and Rhodes Singers.
’62 Ann Fumbanks Mayo ’6 passed away peacefully on September 9, 2025. She was a faithful Christian, loving mother, wife and grandmother. Those who knew her and were lucky enough to call her Mom, Annie or friend were lucky indeed! Ann made and provided a wonderful, welcome, comfortable home for her husband and children. Her home was one of laughter and music, conversation and really good food, and, above all, much love! Lambuth students and faculty were welcomed monthly for the student LIT group, and English majors and faculty came every Christmas for an Open House with a delicious buffet spread--crabbies and broccoli and cheese dip were favorites (Charles and Ann's children would come after to clean out the leftovers!). Never was a caterer used for Lambuth gatherings, Dinner Club evenings with laughter and friends, or any family gatherings. Ann prepared it all beautifully and was a warm and friendly hostess. The house was decorated for each holiday, and the grandchildren LOVED the unique, funny gifts in their stockings every Christmas Eve after church. Yearly, the Thanksgiving table included someone or several who had no one with whom to celebrate the holiday. Ann was an active and involved band parent, too, frying fair food yearly for the Tigrett or JCM band stand at the Jackson fair. Even though she could barely hem a pair of pants, Ann helped the dancers at every Ballet Arts production when her daughter danced. She was the loudest voice, too, at her son’s church league basketball games (just ask Ben)! In short, she was a mom, a wife, and a friend, who welcomed all to her table like so many others, but not. Anyone who knew Ann has a story to tell that always includes the way she made them feel welcomed, nurtured, heard.
Ann was born on July 16, 1940, and was raised in McKenzie, Tennessee, the daughter of Guy and Virginia Fumbanks. She was a loving daughter to wonderful parents and enjoyed cheering and playing the drums in the marching band. After graduating from McKenzie High School, Ann attended Southwestern at Memphis (Rhodes College). While in college, Ann was a member & Vice President of Tri Delta Sorority, treasurer of the Student Council, Miss Southwestern at Memphis, Kappa Alpha Fraternity Rose and named a Lynx yearbook Beauty each year. After graduating with a degree in education, Ann taught elementary school in Memphis at Maury Elementary School. While home for a visit, Ann met Charles W. Mayo and the two fell in love and married within six months. Ann and her husband lived in Nashville and Milan while starting their family and Charles furthered his education. They moved to Jackson in 1968 when Charles began his teaching career at Lambuth. Ann taught at Lambuth Memorial Playschool and First Presbyterian Church preschool when her children were young. Ann and Charles joined First Presbyterian Church when they moved to Jackson. Charles taught Sunday School for decades, and Ann was in the front row of every class. She served as a Deacon and an Elder on the Session, and she took part in and enjoyed the Women of the Church and Circle groups. A very important part of Ann s life was PEO Philanthropic Education Organization, a sisterhood that helps women advance through education. Ann was a member of Chapter Y in Jackson and served as President. Her sisters in PEO were her dearest friends! After their children had entered college, Ann began a career as the Public Guardian for the Elderly for the Southwest TN Development District & the Southwest TN Area on Aging & Disability. She served as the Conservator for Southwest TN for over twenty years until her retirement. During her tenure, she spoke at national conferences and received the Liberty Bell Award from Judge Christy R. Little at Law Day in Jackson.
Ann Mayo was preceded in death by her true love and husband, Dr. Charles W. Mayo; her beloved son, Clay; and her parents, Guy & Virginia Fumbanks. She is survived by her son, Ben Mayo (Dawn); daughter, Ginny Brimm (Tom); her grandchildren: Brooks (Lydia) and Banks Mayo (Clay); Dylan, Drew and Trey Mayo (Ben); and Charlie & Stella Crenshaw (Ginny); and her great-grandson, Dean Clayton (Brooks).
’62 Wilber “Ray” Fleming, age 85, of Germantown, TN, passed away on Tuesday, September 30, 2025. Ray was born in Memphis, Tennessee to Wilber and Addie Fleming. He received his bachelor’s degree from Rhodes College and master’s degree from American University in Washington, DC. His work included roles on the Minuteman missile project with Boeing, the Saturn/Apollo missions with NASA, research projects with Walter Reed, and computer development with the Navy in Millington. He served as president for the Ski Club of Washington and organized volleyball tournaments in Memphis. He attended Hope Church and hosted ballroom dancing classes there for 16 years. He is survived by his daughter, Elizabeth Vannucci (Joseph) and two grandsons.
’64 Dr. Norman B. Waite ’64, age 83, of Knoxville, TN, passed away Thursday, December 25, 2025. He was a graduate of Southwestern at Memphis and received a PHD in Applied Math from John Hopkins. He worked at FedEx and IBM. He was preceded in death by his parents, Robert and Barbara Waite and his brother, Birt Waite. He is survived by his sister-in-law, Ann Waite; niece and nephew, Mary and Jeff Long; grandniece, Emma Long; grand nephews, Mason and Noah Long. Funeral services will be announced and held at a later date. Condolences can be made at www.mynattfh.com.
’65 Tommy Herschel Jagendorf, beloved husband, attorney, and lifelong Memphian, passed away at the age of 82.Born in Memphis on August 15, 1943, Tommy lived a life defined by devotion, intelligence, and quiet generosity. For 56 years, Tommy stood beside his wife, Dolores "Dodie" Santi Jagendorf, the love of his life, whom he tenderly referred to as Bootsi. Married in 1969, their nearly six decades together stood as a testament to loyalty, resilience, and an unshakable bond. Their love story began almost like a movie: a young Dodie, riding on the back of Tommy's motorcycle, meeting her forever love in a moment that quietly ushered in the beginning of a lifetime side by side. A proud Memphian, Tommy attended Christian Brothers High School and later Rhodes College. He earned his law degree from the University of Memphis Cecil C. Humphreys School of Law and went on to build a distinguished legal career marked by honor, acumen, and discipline. Tommy also proudly served his country in the United States Marine Corps, an experience that shaped his character, toughness, and lifelong sense of duty. Beyond his profession, Tommy cared deeply about causes greater than himself. He was a committed advocate for animal welfare and conservation, supporting numerous organizations quietly and faithfully, never seeking recognition-only impact. He was also a generous and caring donor to Baron Hirsch Synagogue, supporting its mission with humility and devotion.
Tommy had a fierce appreciation for Cuban cigars, was an avid reader of history and war books, and a avid lifelong sports fan. He especially loved cheering on his alma mater, the University of Memphis. A devoted animal lover, Tommy leaves behind his beloved cats-Pumpkin, Winter, and Groucho-and had rescued and lovingly cared for seven additional cats at a second residence, exhibiting his lifelong commitment to giving animals a safe and caring home. He was preceded in death by his parents, Hans and Greta Jagendorf, and his sister, Ann Shanker. Tommy is survived by his niece Greta (Shanker) Baum, nephew Jonathan Shanker, his devoted sister-in-law Rita (Santi) Grivich, niece Gina (Grivich) Farrar, nephew Marcus Albert Santi, and, most importantly, his adopted son Mike MacKay, who shared with Tommy unwavering love, steadfast support, countless laughs, and deeply cherished memories that spanned many meaningful years. Tommy Jagendorf lived with purpose, loved without compromise, and stood firm for what mattered. His legacy is not found in accolades, but in kindness, strength, grace, and extraordinary love. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered. Donations in Tommy's memory may be made to an animal charity of choice or to Baron Hirsch Synagogue.
’66 Ann McWilliams Patteson ’66, a beloved resident of New Orleans whose life reflected the soul of the city she called home, passed away on December 15, 2025 at the age of 81. Ann was born in Pine Bluff, Arkansas on September 19, 1944 to Joseph Frank McWilliams and Mary Cornelia Berry McWilliams. After her father retired from service in the Army, their family moved to El Dorado, Arkansas where she was raised. Ann was close with her grandmother, Marie Lee Berry, and had treasured memories from her time with her Granny in Dumas, Arkansas. After graduating from Rhodes College in Memphis, Ann earned a Master's of Social Work from Tulane University. For almost 50 years, Ann maintained a private practice in New Orleans dedicated to helping individuals navigate life's most difficult challenges. Known for her compassionate presence, deep listening, and a commitment to professional growth, Ann touched and cared for many lives. Ann was a cherished member of the community of New Orleans. She embodied the warmth, resilience, and joy that define the city. Known for her independent spirit and easy laughter, Ann never met a stranger and made everyone feel like family. She had a deep love for New Orleans' music, food, and traditions, and never missed the opportunity to dance at the Gospel Tent at Jazz Fest. Ann also took pride in passing those joys on to others. Ann loved her family. She was preceded in death by her spouse, Jan Asch. She is survived by her son, Lee Patteson (Beth) of Lakeland, FL; her grandsons, Hayden Patteson (Lauren) of Birmingham, AL and Hunter Patteson of Lakeland, FL; and her brother, Joe McWilliams P’08 (Vivian ’73, P’08) of Loganville, GA.
’67 Shepherd Spencer Neville III was born in Scooba, Mississippi, where he enjoyed childhood and country life in an ancestral family home going back generations. He graduated from high school at Sewanee Military Academy. He briefly attended Southwestern at Memphis, and North Texas University, but ultimately received his law degree from Baylor Law School in 1971. While there, he had the honor of writing for the Baylor Law Review. He went on to receive his Master of Laws degree (LLM) from Georgetown University in Washington DC, while working for the government. He was married to Susan Lenamon Neville from 1967-1978, with whom he had two daughters. Shep and his family returned to Waco from Washington D.C. in 1974, and he practiced law in Waco for the remainder of his life. He was remarried in 1980 to Judi Schmidt Neville, remaining married until he was widowed in 2020.
Shep enjoyed fishing, sailing, time with family, and his loyal dogs. He was known for his witty humor, kindness, devotion, and being a rare breed of gentleman. Shep passed away peacefully on January 10th with his daughters by his side. He will be forever loved and missed. He is preceded in death by his parents Margaret and Spencer Neville, his first and second wives, and stepdaughter Heather Monroe. He is survived by his children Christi Neville and Caroline Neville, sister Carter Dreesman, and grandchildren Shepherd Neville, Jefferson Monroe, Jackson Monroe, and Lauren Monroe.
’69 Samuel Taylor Cooper, Jr., age 79, went home to be with the Lord on January 1, 2026, at his home in Montgomery, Alabama. Born on May 16, 1946, in Birmingham, Alabama, Sam lived a life marked by faith, service, laughter, and a deep love for family. Sam was a proud graduate of Hayneville High School, earned his undergraduate degree from Rhodes College, where he also served as football team captain and was named Most Valuable Player his senior year. He later completed his master’s degree at Troy University. His competitive spirit never left him, whether on the football field, in the woods, or cheering loudly for Auburn, the Green Bay Packers, or the Atlanta Braves. First and always, Sam loved the Lord. His faith was not just something he believed, but something he lived. He devoted countless hours to prayer ministry, served faithfully as an elder at Vaughn Park Church for 24 years, sat on the board of First Choice Women’s Center for many years, and volunteered with the Montgomery Inner-City Children’s Ministry. If help was needed, Sam showed up, humbly and always faithfully.
He loved his wife and family fiercely. Married to the love of his life, Emily Autrey Cooper, for 52 wonderful years, Sam was a devoted husband, proud father, and joyful grandfather. Few things delighted him more than watching and teaching his granddaughter to swim, play basketball, and instilling in her the importance of hiding God’s Word in her heart through lessons usually sprinkled with encouragement, gentle coaching, and a story or two. Sam had a deep love for the outdoors, particularly hunting and fishing, the stories they inspired, and the quiet early mornings that made them special. He honorably served our country in the Alabama Air National Guard. He was a football, basketball and track and field coach, a leader in business as a banker for over 30 years (15 years as Division President of BancorpSouth Bank), and a man known for integrity, wisdom, and kindness in every role he held. He was a beloved breakfast biscuit baker, a gifted writer, poet, and storyteller, and a man who could make you laugh, think, and feel deeply, sometimes all at once. Sam had a way of making people feel seen and valued, often with a quick prayer, a well-timed joke, and a warm smile.
Sam is survived by his wife, Emily Autrey Cooper; his daughters Shae Cooper Harrell (Trent) and Blake Cooper Kizlauskas (Andy); his grandchildren Tanner Trent Harrell and Olivia Blake Harrell; his brother Donny Cooper (Ceil Ann); and his sisters Becky Cooper Oakes (John Allen) and Cathy Cooper Sellers (Terry). He was preceded in death by his parents, Samuel Taylor Cooper Sr. and Sara Chisolm Cooper. Though Sam will be dearly missed his legacy of faith, love, service, and joy will continue to ripple through every life he touched.
’70 Dr. H. George Wood, Jr., age 77, Memphis, Tennessee, went home to the Lord on Christmas Day, December 25, 2025. He was born in Memphis on April 21, 1948 to Hiram G. Wood, Sr. and Louise Bailey Wood of Selmer, Tennessee, where Hiram ran a dental practice and Louise worked as a nurse. George attended Southwestern at Memphis (Rhodes College) where he met his beloved wife of 51 years, Catherine Laster Wood ’73. He graduated in 1970 with a Bachelor of Arts and later graduated from the University of Tennessee Health Science Center – Memphis in 1979 with a Doctor of Pharmacy. George worked as a pharmacist in Memphis for the Baptist hospital system and Walgreens for 30 years. George married Catherine in 1974. They had two daughters, Amy Wood (Ben Kennedy) of Memphis and Emily Baulig (John) of Greenville, South Carolina. He has a step-grandson, Charles Kennedy and two grandchildren, Honest and Hezekiah Baulig. He was preceded in death by his parents. George lived a life of service. He was very active at Lindenwood Christian Church where he served as an elder, a Stephen minister, and as chairman of several other ministries. He was an Eagle Scout and a 33rd Degree Master Mason.
’70 Leilani Collins, was born June 18, 1948, at Ft. Mead, MD. After thirty years of battling late onset Friedreich’s Ataxia with courage, grit and grace while living independently from her power chair, the added burden of an abdominal cancer surgery in late August simply made it too hard to go on. She passed peacefully on February 19, 2026. Lani graduated from Rhodes College (formerly Southwestern) with a BS in Biology and received laboratory science training at the Baptist College of Health Sciences. She gained certification from the American Society of Clinical Pathology as a Medical Technologist, was licensed in the state of Tennessee and earned specialty certification in Hematology. Lani was the first graduate of the University of Tennessee Health Sciences Master of Clinical Laboratory Science program.
Her first career was as a technologist and supervisor in the Special Hematology Laboratory at Baptist Memorial Hospital where she worked for 30 years. Her second act was as an Associate Professor at UTHSC for 18 years where she served in various roles on the Faculty Senate. She was an expert in her field, asked to give numerous presentations on hematology, body fluid analysis and lab management over the years throughout the United States. She also served as a laboratory inspector and consultant with the College of American Pathologists. She contributed to many hematology textbooks and professional journals published during her extensive career. She was an outstanding instructor and mentor to more than 1,000 medical lab science students, physician assistant students, and pathology residents. Honors and recognitions include those from local and state laboratory organizations; the Baptist College of Health Sciences Outstanding Alumna and she was twice received the UTHSC Excellence in Teaching Award. Lani was a beloved daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. She will be dearly missed.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Col. Otho Brown Collins and Dorothy Ingram Collins. She is survived by her brothers Ken Collins (Jane) of Mesa, AZ and Patrick Collins (Denny Marie) of Aurora, CO, nephews Joe, Ben and Daniel Collins as well as her most favored niece Katie Herman. She was also blessed with six great nieces and nephews along with the many babies she cared for in the Second Presbyterian day care. She was lovingly supported by Blanche Wright, her longtime caregiver, close neighbors, and friends who visited her in her final days, the attentive staff at Ave Maria Skilled Nursing and an end-of-life care team from Accent Care Hospice. Lani’s family is eternally grateful to everyone who provided her support.
Lani was diagnosed with late onset Friedreich’s Ataxia in her mid 40’s. FA is a rare, inherited neurodegenerative disorder causing progressive damage to the nervous system, typically appearing between the ages of 5 and 15. It robs people of balance, motor control, and the ability to walk. Lani was a passionate advocate for finding a cure. Therefore, in lieu of flowers, please make a contribution in Lani’s memory to the Friedreich’s Ataxia Research Alliance at www.curefa.org.
’71 John Anderson Brayton, 76, of Memphis, formerly of Dyersburg, died Wednesday, February 25, 2026, at Methodist University Hospital after a short illness. Born October 11, 1949, he was preceded in death by his parents, Kitty Bright Tipton Brayton ’42 and Lee O. Brayton, Jr. John graduated from Rhodes [Southwestern] College and received his master’s degree from Boston University. He was a pianist, a genealogist, and a published author. Graveside funeral services will be Friday, March 6, 2026, at 1:00 p.m. officiated by Pastor Adam Peeler at Fairview Cemetery. John was a member of the First Presbyterian Church.
He is survived by his sister, Kathy Brayton and husband, Tom Schwartz of Dyersburg. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his brother, Lee “Bub” O. Brayton, III. The family requests memorials be directed to Rhodes College or to the Beethoven Club of Memphis. We are privileged and honored to serve the family of John Anderson Brayton.
’72 Wanda Jane Warmack ’72, 75, of Plymouth, passed away peacefully at her home on Friday, November 14, 2025, surrounded by her loving friends and family. She was the devoted wife of Leon Rabidou and the daughter of the late Edward Oswald "E.O." and Wanda Lucille (Stoker) Warmack. Born on July 27, 1950, in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, Jane graduated cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa from Rhodes College, Memphis, TN. She received a Master's degree in Sociology from Brown University in Providence, RI, and later earned her law degree from Louisiana State University. She practiced law in New Orleans for 13 years before moving to Massachusetts, where she served as an attorney for the Christian Science Church in Boston for almost 20 years. She then helped form the Christian Science provider network and served at its CEO. Jane was known for her extraordinary work ethic, her desire to do what was right, and her unwavering kindness. She never spoke an unkind word about anyone. Humble, strong, light-hearted, intelligent, and generous, she touched the lives of all who knew her.
After meeting her beloved husband Leon, Jane discovered a passion for sailing, and the two spent many joyful days on the waters off Pocasset, Massachusetts. She cherished all aspects of her life-her lifelong friendships formed in Girl Scouts, and her love of Cajun and zydeco music. Wherever she went, Jane carried the spirit and warmth of New Orleans with her. She is survived by her husband, Leon Robidou of Plymouth; her brother, Edward Warmack of Baton Rouge, LA; her sister, Vanna Warmack of Baton Rouge, LA; and her dear friends Karen McCoy, Judy Fletcher, John Royes, and Shelley Schubach. A service in celebration of Jane's life will be held on Saturday, November 22, 2025, at 3:00 PM at Cartmell Davis Funeral Home, 619 State Road, Plymouth (Manomet). An audio/livestream of the service will begin at 3:30PM online by clicking on the TRIBUTE WALL and then Play. To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Wanda "Jane", please visit our Tree Store.
’73 Cherry Varee Falls, 74, passed on Tuesday, November 4, 2025 in Memphis, TN. Cherry is survived by her life partner Camille Deaderick ’57, her siblings Ruskin Falls ’71 (Sabine), Peg Falls-Corbitt ’75 (Doug Corbitt), and Andy Falls ’79, P’08, P’12 (Judy); her beloved nephews and nieces Andrew Falls ’08 (Laura), Martha Falls Vidal ’12 (Gabriel), Annie Corbitt, Jeannie Corbitt Cardona (Matt), Neil Falls, and Eli Falls; and one precious great-niece, her precious great-nephews-and nieces Abel and Emilia Cardona and Penelope Jane Vidal. Penelope Jane Vidal, as well as Blanche Deaderick ’65, David Deaderick (Jody), beloved nephews David Joseph Deaderick (Whitney) and John Deaderick (Johnathan), and precious great-nephew Sam Deaderick. She also leaves behind a host of students who had the privilege of knowing the love, energy, and magic she brought to the classroom.
She is predeceased by her parents Erskine ’38, P'71, P'73, P'75, P'79, GP'08, GP'12 and Ann Bogard Falls P'71, P'73, P'75, P'79, GP'08, GP'12, and Camille's brother Mike Deaderick. Cherry was born in Memphis, TN, January 29, 1951, and grew up in Wynne, AR, graduating valedictorian from Wynne High School in 1969. She graduated from Rhodes College in 1973 and was inducted into the Rhodes College Athletic Hall of Fame in 2004. She earned an M.A. in education from the University of Memphis. Cherry was born a teacher. From teaching her stuffed animals, set in rows on the stairs of the family home, Cherry went on to have forty-seven fulfilling years as a teacher of real students, first at St. Agnus Academy, Memphis, and then from 1977 – 2020 at St. Mary's Episcopal School, Memphis, from which she received the Nanette Quinn Outstanding Teacher Award (1985) and St. Mary's highest honor, the Gold Cross Award (2014). Cherry was born with a big heart for taking care of others, from family, friends, and students to strangers in need. She was an enthusiastic volunteer for Memphis Inter-Faith Association and for the More Than a Meal program of Idlewild Presbyterian Church, where she was a steadfast member for forty-eight years. God's faithful servant to so many, Cherry perhaps saved the best of her love for her nieces and nephews, whom she nurtured like an extra mother and pulled for in all their endeavors. A Service of Witness to the Resurrection in thanksgiving for Cherry's life will be held at Idlewild Presbyterian Church, 1750 Union Avenue, Memphis, Tennessee 38104, on Friday, November 14, 2025, at 11 a.m., with a reception to follow.
’74 Wilda Henderson Dodson ’74, age 73, passed away peacefully of natural causes in her home, surrounded by loved ones, on Friday, November 14, 2025. She is survived by her husband, William C. “Bill” Hudgins; her niece, Penn Dodson (Christopher), and their children. She was predeceased by her parents, Billie C. Henderson Dodson and Clay F. Dodson, and her brother, C. Frank Dodson. Wilda was known for many things, but perhaps primarily her strength and her sense of humor. Having been diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in 1988, she faced frustrations associated with having to deal with a body that wasn’t cooperative and the challenges of diminished physical capacity that worsened year by year. Nevertheless, sometimes described as a “lioness,” she consistently held an attitude of stubborn determination and playing the hand she’d been dealt, usually accompanied by a joke or dose of quick wit. She often referred to MS as a “damn nuisance,” and delighted in overcoming the difficulties it presented.
A lifelong Tennessean, Wilda was born at Vanderbilt Hospital in Nashville. She grew up in a combination of Springfield and Gallatin and graduated from Gallatin High School in 1970. After high school she attended and graduated from Rhodes College in Memphis, TN. After college Wilda attended law school at the University of Tennessee in Knoxville, which had only recently begun admitting women.
After receiving her JD in 1977, Wilda worked as in-house counsel for Park Bank in Knoxville for a couple of years, then practiced law at a general practice small law firm in Cleveland, TN. She subsequently became an assistant district attorney in Bradley County, prosecuting child support nonpayment cases. In 1984 she transitioned out of the practice of law and became a financial advisor for the Edward Jones company, which she continued to do until she retired in 2016. In 1984 she renovated the old Commerce Union Bank at 115 East Main St. on the town square in Gallatin, converting it into the office space where she worked until she retired.
In this role she worked alongside a number of wonderful office administrators who assisted with her work. Focused primarily in helping her hundreds of clients reach their financial goals, Wilda’s role was primarily about relationships, first and foremost, and it showed. Nothing was more important to her than earning their trust and friendship. She enjoyed enormous satisfaction when clients said her advice enabled them to achieve goals such as educating their children or retiring comfortably.
On Dec. 29, 1979, Wilda married Bill Hudgins in the First Presbyterian Church in Gallatin. He was her best friend, confidant, and co-conspirator in as much mischief and adventure as they could get away with. Together they traveled to many interesting foreign and domestic destinations including Russia, Alaska, Greece, the Caribbean, Scotland, and Austria. Wilda and Bill maintained close friendships with a number of people in the greater Gallatin area and afar. Over the years they had an array of household pets and beginning in 2007 they began to host horses and donkeys rescued from situations of abuse and/or neglect for the Volunteer Equine Advocates organization. Wilda was also known for her contributions to the community--in terms of financial giving, time/energy, and sheer presence. In fact, Wilda and Bill were honored by the Sumner Regional Medical Center Foundation in 2004 for their support of the Foundation and role in funding a new county health department facility. Friends viewed Wilda and Bill as “Team Bilda.” They supported each other’s interests as well as community organizations such as Downtown Gallatin, First United Methodist Church, First Presbyterian Church, Shalom Zone, Salvus, Rotary, Junior League, Habitat for Humanity, Gallatin Chamber of Commerce, Sumner Spay Neuter Alliance and Volunteer Equine Advocates (VEA).
She also cared deeply about human rights, women’s issues and America’s future, and supported the ACLU, Planned Parenthood and the Southern Poverty Law Center. For many years, she has sponsored a scholarship for returning women students at Volunteer State Community College. Always creative and with an eye for bright, bold colors, Wilda enjoyed sewing, flower arranging, knitting, and various other craft projects. She read widely, both fiction and non-fiction, and enjoyed mysteries. Wilda will be missed by many, but her contributions will live on, in Gallatin and beyond. In lieu of flowers please make memorial contributions in her honor to Volunteer Equine Advocates (VEA), Sumner Spay Neuter Alliance, or a charity of the donor's choice.
’74 Jeanne Shortridge Palmer ’74 of Memphis, Tennessee, age 71, has taken her final journey--no passport required, no bags to pack, and surely greeted by beloved family, friends, and dogs at the gate. Born the youngest daughter of the late John Shortridge Palmer and the late Nancy Moore Palmer ’45, Jeanne was also preceded in death by her sisters: Nancy Moore Palmer, who died tragically at the age of nine, and Hestyr Leigh Palmer ’70, who faced cancer with courage. Brilliant, determined, and full of curiosity, Jeanne graduated with distinction from Rhodes College at just 20, thanks to her many Advanced Placement courses and summer sessions. She went on to earn her law degree from Memphis State University College of Law. But while Jeanne was proud of her education, her heart belonged to her passions: gardening, reading, traveling, and-above all-cooking and baking. She was the kind of hostess who turned an ordinary dinner into a feast and who carried a homemade frozen bittersweet chocolate cake with Amarena cherries on a plane each February, just to surprise her father on his birthday.
She made six wedding cakes for friends (inspired first by Alice Medrich, then Martha Stewart), hosted Moroccan and Russian Easter dinners, and filled neighbors' homes with Tiramisu, Bouche de Noel, Pavlova, and even the elusive Spanische Windtorte. For Jeanne, the kitchen was not just a place to cook but to love, laugh, and create beauty. Her faith was deep, her humor wicked, and her kindness unshakable. She was devoted to her family and especially attentive to elders, ensuring that her parents and step-grandmother had Saturday outings and Sunday lunches, complete with good china, silver, and one of her simple-but-perfect desserts. Once her mother entered a nursing home, Jeanne brought joy not just to her but to fellow residents, especially those with few visitors, arranging parties with homemade treats and flowers. A lifelong Sherlock Holmes enthusiast, Jeanne carried forward a family tradition that began with her Scottish great-grandfather reading the stories aloud to her father. She joined the Sherlock Holmes Society of London and the online "E-Hounds," where she found community and delight.
She also found joy in serving others: hammering nails and raising walls with Habitat for Humanity, leading her neighborhood's Garden Club and Social Club (where she was the unofficial dessert queen), and participating in Leadership Memphis, where her Olympic-themed dessert spread remains legendary. Travel was another passion. Introduced by her parents, Jeanne eventually explored more than 34 countries across four continents. She and her mother cruised together to Tahiti, Alaska, the Baltic, Italy, Tunisia, Monte Carlo, and the UK. She once flew on a KLM City Hopper co-piloted by then-Crown Prince Willem-Alexander and drank yak butter tea in Bhutan during a Buddhist peace ceremony just days after the start of the 2001 war in Afghanistan. Everywhere she went, Jeanne made friends she kept for life. Jeanne's life was full: of laughter, learning, loyalty, and love. She gave generously of her talents, delighted in the company of others, and never missed a chance to make someone-or some dog-feel special. To remember Jeanne, you need not send flowers or gifts. Instead, pause in your day, look into a dog's eyes, and tell them how wonderful they are. That small act of kindness would have made her smile. Honoring her wishes, a private memorial was held at Memorial Park Cemetery.
’74 Charles Joel Vaughn ’74 was born in Little Rock, Arkansas, on July 12, 1951. He passed away of natural causes on February 28, 2026, in Wayne, New Jersey. Joel grew up in Little Rock, where he went to Catholic High School for Boys. He went on to graduate from Rhodes College with a B.A. in history and communication arts, and then on to Indiana University, Bloomington, where he studied Creative Writing (M.A.) . At Indiana, he later completed his coursework for the Ph.D. in Medieval and Renaissance Studies. Joel began his teaching career at Lamar University, Beaumont, Texas, and then moved on to work at Auburn University, Auburn, Alabama. After teaching a course in medical terminology for many semesters, Joel combined his love of computer programming with his knowledge of medical terms to create a software program. This new venture led him to Nashville, Tennessee, where he started working for the Section of Surgical Sciences at Vanderbilt University Medical Center, first as a medical editor, and later as Director of Instructional Media, a position he held for twenty years.
It was during these years that Joel achieved his best accomplishment, the creation of a home with his wife, Lynn Myrick ’75. Their children, Emer and Norbert, flourished in a culture where books, music, art, and table talk were the daily fare. Joel and Lynn also thought of their family as a domestic church. The four of them were a family of mental travelers, a legacy that Joel passed on to the next generation of five grandchildren. Joel loved action. He was a marathon runner and enjoyed running with his four Dalmatians. He also bicycled in Century rides and participated in one abbreviated Ironman. In his later years, Joel went for long rides on his motorcycle. When he needed to catch his breath, he read Homer’s in the original Greek. In 2009, Joel and his wife, Lynn Myrick, served as missioners in Bolivia, with the Franciscan Mission Service (FMS) located in Washington, D.C. Joel, who always had a love of language study, taught English at a small Catholic college in the “skirts of the Andes,” located in Carmen Pampa, Bolivia, and later at a maximum security prison and an AIDS hospice in Cochabamba. As apple and fudge pies are appreciated but uncommon in Bolivia, Joel brought pies to the people he served. It is worth stating that this lover of art and books ran a children’s library in Carmen Pampa and added substantially to the book collection and student activities.
After his return to the FMS home office in Washington. D.C., December 2013, accompanied by his wife and beloved and still thriving Bolivian cocker spaniel, he found work teaching English literature and writing at Washington Adventist University in Takoma Park, Maryland, and at UMGC (University of Maryland Global Campus). Re-entry into American society after years on mission can be more difficult than the initial immersion in mission. Having worked as Franciscan missioners overseas, Joel and Lynn were charged with the task of “reverse mission,” bringing their experiences of living among and working with poor communities overseas to bear upon their service to others in American society.
In time, Joel and his wife, Lynn, turned to the Third Order Franciscans in Washington, D.C., to sustain their beliefs and find spiritual fellowship. They were professed as Secular Franciscans (OFS) in 2019. As has been said of Joel, he was always doing something for others. But what kind of help helps? Joel was wise in the ways he gave to others, sharing his light and knowledge with the people he loved, his students, and all those he met. He cared for and dearly loved his young grandchildren, fostering their growth as future mental travelers. Joel is survived by his wife of 50 years, Lynn Myrick; his daughter, Emer Vaughn (Alin Cosmanescu), and their children: Ulysses, Lyra, Ceridwen, Hugo, and Iris Cosmanescu-Vaughn; his brother, Tom Vaughn; sister, Mary Ann Harcourt; his brother, John Vaughn (Sandy); in-laws, Ken (Janice) Myrick, Tom Myrick, Beth Geddes; and numerous nieces and nephews. Joel is preceded in death by his parents, George Thomas Vaughn, and Daisy Kim Vaughn; and his son, Norbert Vaughn.
’75 Newton Pond McLean ’75, 73, of Memphis, Tennessee, passed away peacefully Sunday afternoon after a long illness. Newton was the youngest of five children and displayed an early aptitude for music that would shape his life. He grew up in Midtown Memphis and attended Snowden School and Central High School. He graduated from Rhodes College with a Bachelor of Arts in History. He was a member of the Southwestern Singers. His history professor encouraged him to pursue graduate studies in history, but Newton was intent on pursuing his interests in music. Newton was a talented musician who loved playing guitar. During his college years he was a member of the local band J.S. Buzz (originally known as Jeep), which played regularly at Procape Garden, a popular Overton Square restaurant and bar.
In June 1975, Walter Dawson, music critic of The Commercial Appeal, penned that the band gave "verve and depth" to popular songs by Bob Dylan, Leon Russell, Elton John, The Beatles, and The Lovin' Spoonful, as well as Memphian Jesse Winchester. The band also sang original tunes, including "Love as an Afterthought" written by Newton, which Dawson described as "a very thawing love song, even for the coldest heart." Newton later moved to Athens, Georgia, with his girlfriend and managed a popular seafood restaurant there known as Sparky's. He also played nights at Athens venues, including Uptown Lounge and the Georgia Theatre, performing with local bands The Healers and Neal Pattman Blues Band. Newton grew tired of the Athens scene in the late 1990s and moved back to Memphis, where he took trade school courses in electricity and servicing HVAC equipment. Not long thereafter he took on the responsibility of running the household for his father and looking after him in his later years.
Newton remained in Memphis following his father's death, living in the same Midtown house where he grew up. His guitar was never far from reach, and he was proud to pick it up and show family members the latest tune he was working on. He is preceded in death by his brother, Michael S. McLean ’68 (and wife, Patricia) of Virginia Beach, Virginia, and leaves his brothers, Robert A. McLean ’65 (and wife Sydney) of Germantown and Albert G. McLean (and wife Ann) of Collierville, and his sister, Harriet S. McLean, of Roswell, Georgia, 15 nieces and nephews, 15 grand-nieces and grand-nephews, and one great grand-nephew.
’75 Andrew Soule’ Scott III passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on December 20, 2025, following a brief illness. He was 72. Andy was born on February 10, 1953, to Andrew Soule Scott, Jr. and Jean Stone Scott and grew up in Laurel, Mississippi. The son of a lawyer and a schoolteacher, he was raised in a house full of books and readers. Following graduation from R. H. Watkins High School, he attended Southwestern at Memphis (now Rhodes College), where he majored in political science and urban studies and made lifelong friends. At his graduation in 1975, he received the Algernon Sydney Sullivan Award, given each year to a senior in recognition of service to the college and the community at large. Following graduation, Andy became a housing planner with the City of Memphis Division of Housing and Community Development and was Executive Director of the Memphis Housing Development Corporation. In 1980, he moved to Chattanooga, Tennessee, where he was Housing Coordinator for the Chattanooga Housing Authority. In Chattanooga, he met his future wife Mary at the wedding of mutual friends, and they were married on December 22, 1984.
In 1985, Andy and Mary moved to Atlanta, where Andy pursued graduate studies in real estate finance at Georgia State University and worked as a consultant in urban redevelopment. In 1989, he accepted a newly created position with the City of Greensboro, North Carolina as Special Assistant to the City Manager for Housing Development and ultimately became the City’s first Director of Housing and Community Development. In 2009, he became Assistant City Manager for Economic Development, and he retired from the city in 2016 after 27 years of service. In June 2016, he was awarded The Order of the Long Leaf Pine by Governor Pat McCrory for his contributions and service to the community. Following his retirement from the city, he enjoyed a career in real estate development consulting. Andy was active in the community, serving on boards including Greensboro Day School, the Nussbaum Center for Entrepreneurship, and Habitat for Humanity. A second-generation Eagle Scout, he was a merit badge counselor and served on Boards of Review for his sons’ troops; he also was proud that both boys earned their own Eagle Scout awards. Andy was a member of Holy Trinity Episcopal Church, where he especially enjoyed the friendships made through his Covenant Group, which has met for more than 30 years. Andy enjoyed a good conversation, an interesting book, the study of history and politics, discussions about his native Mississippi, and the quest for exceptional barbecue. He saw the best in people and had a listening ear for others. Family was the center of his life, and he often said his greatest accomplishments were his sons Will and John. Andy leaves behind a legacy of family, kindness, service, and sense of community.
He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister Sally Scott Hamby, and his brother Charles David Scott. He is survived by his loving wife, Mary Leslie Scott, and their sons, William Andrew Scott and wife Susannah Baird of Raleigh, North Carolina, and John Leslie Scott and wife Aubrie Ann of Chattanooga, Tennessee.
’75 Joseph Alexander Purvis, much loved husband, father, grandfather and friend, died suddenly at home on January 26, 2026. He was born in Jackson, Mississippi, on October 2, 1953, the youngest of four sons of Dr. George Dewey Purvis and Janet Mitchell Purvis. Joe attended the Jackson public schools, attained the rank of Eagle Scout, and was graduated from Rhodes College. He earned his juris doctor degree in 1984 at Mississippi College School of Law, where he was a member of the law review. Following law school, Joe became associated with Scott, Hetrick and McBee. He spent a majority of his career at Southern Farm Bureau Life Insurance Company, retiring as Senior Vice President, General Counsel and Secretary in 2018. Joe treasured his times playing golf, highlighted by trips to Bandon Dunes and St. Andrews. He valued the etiquette, history and camaraderie of the game, and he was known for his ability to coach other players when asked.
Affectionately known as “Bear” to his grandchildren, Joe took great joy in making detailed plans for family trips to Disney World. He enjoyed evenings in with a good book and a bite of dark chocolate. Joe’s calming presence and kindness will always be remembered by friends, colleagues and family. He is survived by his beloved wife of forty-eight years, Janie Lydick Purvis; daughter, Mary Mitchell Todd, and son-in-law, William Gardner Todd, IV, of Alexandria, Virginia; and grandchildren, Elizabeth Louis Todd and William Gardner Todd, V. He is also survived by brothers George Dewey Purvis (Nancy), John Marvin Purvis (Gayla), Mitchell Mark Purvis (Dixie); sister-in-law, Mary Lydick Rogers; brother-in-law, Walter Edwin Lydick; and many nieces and nephews.
’78 Dr. Elizabeth "Bess" Shirley Stanton ’78, age 69, passed away at home in Candler, NC, on November 9, 2025, surrounded by the love of her wife of 25 years, Vicki, her children, and pets. Bess was born in Jackson, MS, on July 24th, 1956. She earned an undergraduate degree from Rhodes College in Memphis, her MD from the University of MS, and completed her Residency in General Adult and Child Psychiatry at Duke University. Additionally, she completed an MBA program specializing in Healthcare Administration. Dr. Stanton became triple board certified in Adult Psychiatry, Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, as well as Addiction Medicine. After holding several Chief Medical Officer positions at national healthcare organizations.
Dr. Stanton returned to her roots of providing direct service to individuals with serious psychiatric and addiction illnesses. As the opioid overdose epidemic took hold in western NC, she and her wife, Vicki Ittel, PhD, opened and operated several Opioid Treatment Programs, including a program in Asheville, NC. When not providing direct care services, Bess had passions for travel, photography, scuba diving, taking care of her beloved pets, and her grandchildren.
Bess is survived by her wife, Dr. Vicki L. Ittel, daughter Sarah E. Stanton Goodwin (Brent), son William Benjamin Stanton, three grandchildren (Harper Stanton, Jacob W. Goodwin, Lillie Wren Goodwin), sister Cleta Shirley Ellington (Edward), brother Steve Shirley (Helen), nieces and nephews. She is preceded in death by her parents Walter Clifton Shirley and Lillie Bess Stevenson Shirley Hines as well as sister Connie Shirley Hines and Walter Clifton Shirley Jr.
’79 Edward Kenneth Ferguson ’79, 69, passed away peacefully surrounded by loved ones on December 5, 2025, after a brief illness. Ken was born in New Orleans on September 14, 1956, to the late Dr. Edward Bernard Ferguson and Marjorie Clarke Ferguson. He was also preceded in death by his brother John Ferguson. Ken attended Trinity Episcopal School and Isidore Newman High School and graduated from Rhodes College in Memphis, Tennessee. He received two bachelors' degrees (History and Political Science). It was during this time in Memphis when Ken truly discovered his love of entertainment. He began performing comic sketches for the college radio station, acting on stage, and entertaining in comedy clubs and at conventions. As a true Renaissance man, loving knowledge for its own sake, he immersed himself in various activities. He was an actor, comedian, impressionist, trivia enthusiast, history buff, and competitive 'Expert' chess player. His cousin Ted taught him chess at a very young age. After Ken returned from college they played chess almost every week right up to his hospitalization. Ken became an expert player then a chess instructor for schools and individual students. He was also an attentive and kind godfather. Ken was a member of Paul Morphy Chess Club, the Bienville Club, and several Carnival organizations including Bacchus.
He was a charter member of the Legion of Mars krewe and was an iconic figure at the annual ball. It can neither be confirmed nor denied that he was a charter member of Le Krewe d'Etat and one who greatly contributed to the humorous satirical themes and floats. It is rumored that he was d'Etat Dictator in 2009, but that also cannot be either confirmed or denied. Ken was a regular contributor to the talk shows on WGSO 990AM radio and member of the radio station's board of directors. He was enthusiastically involved in local historic preservation efforts and in assisting military veterans. Those fortunate enough to know Ken personally found in him a kind, humble, intelligent, and loyal friend. Ken's wit and humor always brought smiles to all. He was a source of lighthearted joy. Ken was a talented raconteur who would often regale his friends with his wit, his ability to speak on any subject, his animated anecdotes, and his ability to impersonate virtually any voice. Ken was a trivia buff who regularly won local trivia night contests at the Deutsches Haus, the Crown and Anchor, Finn McCool's, and Martine's. Ken leaves behind two dogs, Joseph and Mrs. Bojangles, as well as many loving friends.
’81 John T. Peeples, Sr., 66, of Martinsville, entered into his eternal life on November 28, 2025. Preceding him are his parents, Dr. Chester Weir "C.W." Peeples ’52 and Betty Lou Collins Peeples ’53. Surviving family members who will cherish his memory are his wife, Cheryl Reaves Peeples ’83; children, John Taylor Peeples Jr. and his wife, Chelsea Makin Peeples, and their children, Anna Rose Peeples, Abram Thomas Peeples, and Asa John Peeples; William Anderson Peeples and his wife, Virginia Anne Peeples, and their child, Eleanor "Nora" Reaves Peeples; siblings, Chester Weir "Chet" Peeples III, David Collins Peeples and his wife, Leslie, Guy Langley Peeples and his wife, Theresa; nieces and nephews, Tatiana Boucher and her husband, Maxim, Brad "Henry" Reaves and his wife, Sarah, Lizzy Curl Reaves, Seth Richards and his wife, Jenna, Merylann Campbell and husband, Zachary, Channing Peeples, Collins Peeples and his wife, Leslie, Houston Peeples and his wife, Callie, and Brooke Peeples and her husband, Brandon Broadfoot.
John retired after working in Non-Profit Finance in the towns they lived in, including Saint Jude Children's Hospital in Memphis, TN.; United Way of Montgomery, Radford, and Floyd in Christiansburg, VA.; Better Housing of Tompkins County Inc., Ithaca Housing Authority, and United Way of Tompkins County in Trumansburg, NY. He loved to garden, use his photography skills, feed the birds in their yard, and spend time with family and friends. John was deeply devoted to his faith in Jesus Christ. The husband of a pastor, he served in the church as a Deacon and Elder, first elected at First Presbyterian Church West Memphis. He then served at Christiansburg Presbyterian Church, First Presbyterian Church of Ulysses, and Forest Hills Presbyterian Church. He provided the audio and visual technology for services at First Presbyterian Church of Ulysses and Forest Hills Presbyterian Church. When his children were growing up, he was a Boy Scout leader, Sunday School teacher for First Presbyterian Church West Memphis and Christiansburg Presbyterian Church, a Christiansburg High School Band Parent, and Youth Group leader at Christiansburg Presbyterian Church (chaperoning annual trips to Montreat Youth Conference).
Special thanks to friends and family in the Presbyterian denomination. The family extends their appreciation to the following care teams: SOVAH Hospital-Martinsville, Roanoke Memorial Hospital, and Good Samaritan Hospice of Roanoke.
’84 Michael L. Sharp ’84, age 63, of Murfreesboro, Tennessee, passed away Sunday, January 25, 2026, leaving behind a legacy of service, love, honor, and quiet heroism that touched every life he encountered. Michael was born on February 4, 1962, in Columbus, Georgia, the son of Walter and Emma Sharp. From the very beginning, his life was marked by curiosity, intelligence, and an unwavering sense of responsibility to others. He carried these qualities with him through every chapter of his life. Michael earned his Bachelor of Science from Rhodes College in Memphis, Tennessee. He went on to serve his country as a soldier in the United States Army, where his sense of duty and honor only deepened. Later, he devoted his professional life to healthcare, serving lastly as Director of the Laboratory at TriStar StoneCrest Medical Center in Smyrna, Tennessee, where his leadership, integrity, and commitment to excellence were deeply respected. A Freemason, Michael believed strongly in service, moral responsibility, and leaving the world better than he found it.
Michael was a big man with an even bigger heart, and nowhere was that more evident than in his love for his wife and daughter. He is survived by his devoted wife Tracy Sharp; his daughter Jessica McVeigh and son-in-law Ryan McVeigh; his cherished grandson Grady Michael McVeigh; and his sisters Lisa, Terry and Hope. He is also lovingly remembered by many friends, colleagues, and all those whose lives he touched through his service and kindness. He was preceded in death by his parents Walter and Emma Sharp; his sister Lori Sharp; his brother Leslie Sharp; and his baby son Garrett, whom he now holds again. Michael’s legacy lives on in every life he shaped, every story he told, and every act of love he modeled.
Michael L. Sharp lived a life of honor, service, integrity, and deep love—and he will forever remain beloved by those who were lucky enough to call him theirs.
’86 Todd B. Howell of Decatur, AL passed away November 13, 2025, after a lengthy illness. Todd will best be remembered by his friends as a gifted storyteller. Blessed with an amazing memory and extensive vocabulary, Todd would offer up stories about his childhood, life in Decatur, and all things Alabama with singular detail, painting vivid pictures of life in the South during the 1960s and beyond. While most of his stories centered on family life, his memory was such that he frequently detoured into richly detailed stories about people, places and things rivaling the scope of anything in a John T. Edge or Ken Burns documentary. If his stories could ever have been recorded, they would have made a highly entertaining podcast. Todd attended The Randolph School and later Decatur High School, before departing for Memphis where he attended Rhodes College. There he was in the ROTC, the Sigma Alpha Epsilon Fraternity and graduated with a Language Arts Degree in Spanish.
As the youngest of three boys, he idolized his older brothers John and Charlie. Big brother Charlie, lead singer and guitarist for the Huntsville band The Snake Doctors, was definitely a catalyst for Todd becoming a drummer. Todd’s stories of growing up in the big house in Decatur with his brothers, and his dogs Stretch, Tut and Willie, were numerous and entertaining. Todd was an avid no, make that rabid, fan of Alabama football in particular and all its other teams, men’s, and women’s, in general. He inherited his devotion to Alabama sports from his father Dr. Charles “Pistol” Howell. Hearing Todd’s tales of going to games or listening on the radio with his father, you could feel the love and admiration he had for Pistol. Todd also related many a story readily admitting that, as the baby of the family, he was doted on and spoiled by his mother to whom he was equally devoted.
Todd probably never thought much about dying, and certainly never considered the topic of pallbearers. If he had they probably would have been the people he talked about most- Charlie Howell, Huntsville AL; Bailey Crane, Greg Harris, Tim Salter, and Mike Gleason all of Decatur AL; Stephen Davis, Fairhope AL, Rob Finch, Miami FL, Nick Rule, Little Rock AR. Todd was preceded in death by his parents Dr. Charles and Jan Howell, and brother John Wesley Howell. He is survived by brother Charles Howell.
Written by Jim Pat Beaird ’83
’90 Kearsten C. Angel, age 57, of Ocala, Florida passed away Friday, January 30, 2026 after many years of battling serious medical conditions. Her family was by her side as she met her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We all rejoice in her perfect and whole restoration! Kearsten grew up in Ocala and graduated from Forest High School (1986) and Rhodes College (1990). She went on to receive her Juris Doctor from the Cumberland School of Law at Samford University and returned to her hometown of Ocala to work at the State Attorney's office for many years. She volunteered faithfully and tenaciously on the Republican Party of FL State Executive Committee and was the Programs Director for the Villagers for Trump campaign. She was very proud to serve as the Marion County Republican State Committeewoman from 2020-2024. Kearsten dedicated countless hours to supporting and promoting both local and state leaders because she cared deeply about her community. She loved our great country and was passionate about her beliefs--a great patriot!
She also played a mean game of Rook, held family close to her heart, and treasured her dear friends. Kearsten was preceded in death by her parents, Carven and Marsha Angel of Ocala. She is survived by her sister, Ashley (Tim) Raymond; nieces, Evie (Liam) Reagan, Shannen Raymond, Macy Raymond; stepmom, Gloria Angel; stepsisters, Marj (Scott) Neal, Heather Lenemier; stepbrothers, Mike(Dana) Alsop, Fran (Kathy) Alsop.
’94 Tammi Jo Titsworth, age 52, of Pottsville, passed away Wednesday, November 5, 2025, after a long illness leaving, a hole in the world that can never be filled. She was born November 20, 1972, in Danville to Ralph Cleveland Titsworth Jr., and Nancy Belle Park. Tammi grew up in Arkansas and earned a B.A. in English from Rhodes College in Memphis, Tennessee, where she edited the literary journal and was known for her wit and her vivacious personality. After college she pursued an MFA at Miami University in Oxford, Ohio. She moved to California where she met her husband, Mike Rivas, and she and Mike later returned to Arkansas. She worked as a writer, editor, and entrepreneur. Her clients included NASA, Microsoft and the World Bank.
She was preceded in death by her parents. She is survived by her husband Mike; her son, Daniel Rivas, of the home; her sister, Frances (Brad) Titsworth-Roberson of Russellville; her brother, Ralph Robert “Rocky” (Kylie Austin) Titsworth of Pottsville; her honorary sister, Shannon Wess of Pottsville; her sister, Teresa Darlene Halbrook of Russellville; and many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends around the world.
’29 Mary Frances Forbes ’29 - It is with great sorrow that we announce that Mary Frances Forbes, 18, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, October 13, 2025.
A lifelong Memphian, Mary Frances was a graduate of St. George’s Independent School in Collierville, TN, and attended Rhodes College in Memphis at the time of her passing. At Rhodes, Mary Frances was a Clarence Day Scholar, a testament to her leadership and penchant for excellence, as well as her love of and belief in a bright future for the city of Memphis. Core to Mary Frances’s passions was a heart for social justice by way of service and civic engagement. She was a founding member of the Memphis chapter of Voters of Tomorrow, an organization whose mission is to engage young Americans in politics and government, through which she helped to empassion many young people to register to vote and become more informed citizens of democracy. She passionately devoted time and resources to serve in many other ways, through organizations such as Keep Memphis Beautiful, which hosts community litter cleanup events, and Sister Supply, whose mission is to fight period poverty and destigmatize menstruation through supply drives and education. During her senior year, she even organized a lunch cohort for students and teachers to join together and discuss ways St. George’s could be better stewards of the environment. While her involvements are too extensive to list in full, the common factor is that each represents Mary Frances’s selflessness. Every action was about something bigger: her belief that no one deserves to be forgotten, underserved, or rendered voiceless.
Mary Frances approached the beauty and the tragedy of the world through a lens of action, and she viewed the various forms of art for which she was passionate as a vehicle for the critical thinking that would lead to concrete contributions. As she wrote in a college admission essay, “[art] calls me to action.” Music, literature, and film specifically inspired this action beyond simply being a medium of entertainment. She approached every text with an open mind and as a call to arms—her political involvement fueled by an insistence that we do not regress to the same problems to which her beloved riot grrrl punk rock spoke, her internship work inspired by issues emphasized by films she loved. It was perhaps through music that Mary Frances’s open-minded approach to life was most evident. As both a fan and as a musician herself, she explored and experienced the peaks and valleys of emotion through song, independent of genre, age, or popularity. Both playing music and sharing her favorite songs with others were among her most sincere and dynamic vehicles of expression, and her appreciation for exploring the niches of the musical world was a clear reflection of her constant craving to explore the world, as a whole, more fully.
In her classes as in life, Mary Frances was always ready for a discussion, but the discussion was never about her; it was about earnestly deciphering the world around her to unlock greater discoveries of authenticity and purpose. On one memorable occasion, Mary Frances was diametrically opposed to the political ideas espoused by a peer, yet when he was impolitely dismissed by other students, she defended him, explaining his argument to everyone better than he had, gently teaching him and forging a closer community. By intent listening and an open mind, whether within conversation or to the messaging of the art that buoyed her inherent belief that our world has the capacity to be the best version of itself, Mary Frances constantly challenged her own worldview. It was as if you could see her imagination growing as it revealed unseen layers of texture and color to human behavior and history. She embraced this complexity and its lesson of humility; it meant more enjoyment, deeper curiosity, and an expanded sense of wonder, all of which served to reveal more possibilities when it came to her quest to grasp profound truths of life. Socrates and Mary Frances: individuals blazing through the haze of sophistry, seeking truth at all costs.
Perhaps most powerful is that Mary Frances believed in all of us, even at our worst. Serving on the St. George’s Honor Council, a cohort of students who advise peers toward wise choices, she stood athwart social pressure, pointing us toward Lincoln’s “better angels of our nature.” As a senior, she was named Prefect of Honor, and she was awarded the Ferguson Award for Distinguished Service. More important than any titles or honors, though, Mary Frances was a titan of standing up for what is right. She was an advocate for being one’s genuine self and that advocacy came through in everything she did. She was open and frank, willing to speak truth to power, and she had a way of enamoring you with her passions—of inspiring hope and passion within you that you didn’t even know was there. In an essay from her senior year, she wrote, “If we are able to acknowledge the darkest, rawest parts of what humanity is and own up to our continued involvement in the [evil acts of this world], then we can create change for our institutions and society.” The whole of her words and actions underscore her “both/and” perspective. In short, while she was inspired by the intricacy of the world around her, she provided that same inspiration for the rest of us. Through Mary Frances, teachers learned to be better teachers, peers learned how to be better peers. Because of Mary Frances, we all learned to be better humans.
Mary Frances also loved her family fiercely. She revered the trips she took with her father, James Carlo Forbes, particularly when they were involved exploring the musical terrain that he so inspired her to love. She admired the passion with which her mother, Tracy Moore Forbes, modeled the productive balance of work and life. And she perhaps loved being her brother West’s sibling more than anything in the world. Mary Frances saw West as equal parts best friend and confidant, and she watched over him adamantly. Mary Frances will also be greatly missed by her friend and first love, Wesley Walkup. As we have mourned her loss, Wesley has remained close to us and has become a part of our family unit as we grieve together. Mary Frances was preceded in death in 2024 by her dear grandfather, Stephen Tazwell Moore. Mary Frances is also survived by her loving grandparents Carolyn Moore, Laura Forbes, Gene Geiger, and Paul Forbes. She is also survived by her Aunt and Uncle, Catherine Moore and John Taylor Moore, and their children, Jack, Mia Beth, Shep, Roman, Jude, and Cate. Finally, she also leaves behind her aunt and uncle who were her godparents, Leon and Cindy Cefalu, and their daughter Kelli Cefalu.
In Mary Frances’s 5th grade capstone speech, aptly focused on the importance of originality, Mary Frances showed an early display of her maximizing freedom to express excellence as she blended singing in character with her prose. Amidst references to John Stuart Mill, The Sound of Music, Disney’s Pinocchio, Harry Potter, Wicked, and Roald Dahl, she charged us to, “Remember what the book of Psalms says, that you are ‘fearfully and wonderfully made…’” From an early age she wrestled with the meaning of those words as she pressed her immense, unique talents to the point of those divinely knitted seams bursting, striving to serve goodness and justice. Her sincere endeavor is an unfinished model to us left grieving and wrestling with that same psalm’s words:
"[Y]our works are wonderful,
I know that full well...
Your eyes saw my unformed body;
all the days ordained for me were written in your book
before one of them came to be" (Psalms 139:14,16).
But we do not grieve alone: “He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all,” “the Father of compassion… who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble” (Romans 8:32a; 2 Corinthians 1:3-4a). While it is beyond the capacity of those of us she left behind to understand how or why it is possible to have lost such a guiding star so young, the task left to us is to march forward as inspired by the example that Mary Frances showed us most clearly: to be a more compassionate listener, to be unafraid of the daunting nature of important questions, to appreciate each other’s inherent originality, and to stand up for what is right and good in our complex world.
Faculty/Staff
Dr. William L. Daniels, Professor Emeritus, 97, passed away peacefully on September 28, 2025, at his home at Applewood Retirement Community in Amherst, MA. He was born on July 27, 1928, in Memphis, Tennessee, son of the late Thomas B. and Grace L. (Laws) Daniels. Bill was married to his beloved wife, Margaret G. "Peggy" McDaniels, for an astonishing 73 years. Together, they built a warm and supportive family, which includes their cherished children, Ellen G. Quintin and her husband David of Northborough, MA, Susan G. Daniels of Pelham, MA and Thomas L. Daniels and his wife Holly David of Gales Ferry, CT. He also leaves his 4 precious grandchildren, Chelsea G. Pribonic and her husband Chris, Hannah T. Crowl, Maxxwell T. Crowl and William "Will" B. Daniels and his wife Natalie. Besides his parents, Bill was predeceased hy his son Peter B. Daniels and by his brother, John Thomas Daniels. Bill was raised in Memphis, TN, and received his undergraduate and master's degrees from Vanderbilt University. He enlisted in the US Army during the Korean War, attending the Army Language School in Monterey, CA. He was a member of the musician's union and was a jazz drummer in New York City, training and playing with Buddy Rich's teacher, Lennie Tristano.
After deciding that the lifestyle of a musician wasn't the best for a married man, Bill decided to pursue a life in academia and earned his Ph.D. in English at Harvard University, specializing in Irish Literature. His career as a college professor began at Newton College of the Sacred Heart (which later merged with Boston College) and he eventually moved back to Memphis with his family to teach at Rhodes College. One of his students recounted the powerful lesson Bill taught her: "Just be yourself. Speak your truth; don't try to impress anybody. Say what you know. That is good enough. "In his retirement, he and Peggy moved to Cape Cod where he cherished his time there with his wife, children and grandchildren at the Sea Street Beach in East Dennis. They relocated again to Northfield, MA from 1997-2020 to help raise their grandchildren and then in 2020 made their final home in Amherst. A devout Catholic, William was a loyal parishioner at St. Patrick's Church in South Hadley.
Dr. Bette J. Ackerman, a long-time member of the Rhodes faculty and a friend to many at Rhodes, passed away in October 2025. Bette served at the college for 28 years, as a faculty member in the Department of Psychology and even as Dean of Students from 2001 to 2004. By the time she retired in 2015, she had contributed to the lives of many Rhodes students.
Dr. Bobby R. Jones, Professor Emeritus, passed away on October 23, 2025. Born December 25, 1934, to Willie and Fannie (Lee) Jones in Provo, Arkansas. Dr. Jones was a beloved member of our community, having taught in the Department of Biology at Rhodes College, Memphis, TN, for 31 years before his retirement in 2001. Throughout his career, Bobby was a dedicated educator and mentor who inspired generations of students through his passion for Genetics, a course he taught faithfully every year until his retirement. After retirement Bobby put his intellect and energy into volunteering at the Memphis Botanic Garden, the Friends of Germantown Library and was active in his church. Bobby had a lifelong love of gardening and when he mastered one skill he would move on to the next challenge. Bobby is survived by his wife, Ann (Stewart) Jones, her extended family, and by many friends, colleagues, and former students who will miss him deeply. His legacy of curiosity, kindness, and dedication to science and education will continue to inspire us.
Dr. Donald Webb Tucker P'80, P'84, GP'13, GP'16 went to meet his Heavenly Maker on December 26, 2025, at the age of 93. He was born November 17, 1932 in Albemarle, NC and pre-deceased by his parents, John William Tucker and Ada Hudson Tucker. He is also pre-deceased by his brother, Hubert Tucker, and sister, Elizabeth Watson. He leaves his beloved wife Sybil, his son, John William Tucker II ’80, P’13 (Laurie) of Eads and daughter, Mary Lynn Davis ’84, P’16 (Jeff ’85, P’16) of Nashville, along with grandchildren Katy Helms ’13 (Luke) of Collierville, TN, Will Tucker (Shelby) of Eads, TN, Ellie Davis ’16 of Chicago, IL, and Stephanie Davis of Birmingham, MI, and four great-grandchildren.
A graduate of Davidson College, he earned his master's and doctorate degrees at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Donald lived his passion teaching foreign languages and humanities at Rhodes College for over 50 years. He enjoyed engaging with his students and inspiring them to love language. He and Sybil led dozens of groups of students in cultural emersion to Mexico, Spain and Italy while helping those students hone their skills in the respective languages. He loved playing the trumpet and singing in the Christ Methodist Church choir for many years where he also taught Sunday School. He taught his children lifetime athletic passions: golf with John and running with Mary Lynn. He loved reading challenging literature of all sorts, Division III football, classical music, cars both new and old, and talking with just about anyone. He undoubtedly left a positive impression on many inquisitive minds. He, along with Sybil, served his Lord with grace and kindness in and out of the classroom always being hospitable to international travelers needing a warm meal and homestay. He modeled the ideal for marriage, inspired others intellectually and most importantly, loved his Lord and Savior.
Stacy Allen Elliott, age 46, entered her heavenly home on February 10, 2026, at Germantown Methodist Hospital with her husband John by her side, after a courageous six-year battle with metastatic breast cancer. Above all, Stacy was a fierce lover and follower of Jesus; a devoted wife to John; and a loving mother to her twins, Walter and Darby. She was a cherished big sister to Bryn, Kelse, and Leigh, a dedicated counselor to students, and a woman with a deep heart of service for others. Wherever she went, she freely shared her love for Jesus and drew people closer to Him. Stacy was born in Dallas, Texas, on August 5, 1979, to William (Bill) Payne Allen Jr. and Phyllis McCarty Allen. As the oldest of four sisters, she and her siblings were the “Little Women” of the house, joyfully sharing their childhood in University Park during the 80s and 90s. They were lifelong cheerleaders for one another, treasuring memories of birthday parties, family beach vacations, holiday celebrations, school experiences, first loves, and the births of their children. Growing up on Hanover Street and attending Hyer Elementary, Highland Park Middle, and Highland Park High School forged lifelong friendships that Stacy cherished deeply.
Her summers were spent at Kanakuk Kamp, a Christian camp in Branson, Missouri, where her love and dedication to Jesus took root. She attended the same session at Kanakuk Kamps K1 and K2 for 10 years, then returned for several more as a counselor. During one high school year at K2, she was elected Kickapoo Princess. As a leader and role model, she encouraged the younger Kickapoo campers at K1 and directed their group stage play, among many other activities. She adored those years on Lake Taneycomo and Table Rock Lake—building lifelong friends and joining the entire camp in powerful praise and worship.
In 1995, Stacy moved with her family to Germantown, Tennessee, and enrolled at Briarcrest Christian School. She thrived in choir, Madrigal singers, and theater—most memorably as Glinda the Good Witch—while competing on the pom squad in Orlando. A member of the National Honor Society, she graduated with honors in 1998. Drawn to Baylor University’s Music Department for vocal performance, Stacy loved her Chi Omega sisters and participated eagerly in the annual Sing Song competition. Inspired to serve, she joined the Baylor Student Leadership Team, supporting students and alumni. She organized the Day of Service, mobilizing Baylor students for community cleanup and beautification in Waco, and helped merge several student service groups into one unified organization. She was also a founding member of The Guerrilla Comedy Troupe. Amid her classical music studies, she delivered her vocal recital on March 16, 2002, accompanied by her favorite pianist, performing selections from Mozart, Donaudy, Poulenc, and Quilter (“Weep You No More” and “My Life’s Delight”), along with “Someone Is Sending Me Flowers” from Shoestring Revue by Baker. Later, she shared her gifts and love for Jesus on the Praise and Worship team at Fellowship Memphis Church.
Having discovered her passion for serving fellow students at Baylor, Stacy pursued a Master’s degree in Higher Education Administration at Boston College, living in Brookline and Newton and enjoying trips to Fenway Park. She graduated with honors and began her career as Resident Hall Director at Swann Residence Hall at Carson-Newman University in Jefferson, Tennessee. There she guided a dormitory of young women through life’s challenges, walking alongside them and leading some to Jesus. She helped plan Swann Hall’s 100th anniversary celebration and a homecoming for past residents. Homesickness for her family eventually drew her back to West Tennessee. At Rhodes College, she served as an admissions representative, traveling weekly across assigned U.S. regions to visit high schools and work the college fair circuit. Rarely home, she built fast friendships with fellow reps from other colleges, even forming a playful “fraternity/sorority” they called ADM. Those friends continued gathering as recently as last year. She also met her future husband, a rep from Davidson College—John Charles Elliott Jr.—who lived in Charlotte. The long distance prompted her to take a step of faith: she moved to Nashville and became a college advisor at Christ Presbyterian Academy, guiding upperclassmen through ACT/SAT prep, college visits, high school course planning, and applications. Having read applications at Rhodes, she understood what colleges sought and realized this work—helping students and parents find the right fit—was her true calling. Another step of faith soon followed: she moved to Charlotte.
There, Stacy joined Queens College as an admissions representative. John, working for his family’s business, Davidson Chocolate Co., was preparing to open and run a new location. At Christmas 2010, they became engaged, and on June 11, 2011, they married at Germantown Presbyterian Church. Stacy stepped away from the college side to focus on college counseling at Davidson Day School. In 2013, John was accepted into a Master’s program in Supply Chain Management at North Carolina State University, so Stacy took a similar counseling role at Trinity School of Durham and Chapel Hill. In 2014, joy overflowed when they learned Stacy was expecting. They set about preparing their condo for not one baby, but two, stocking up on duplicates of everything the twins would need. Walter and Darby arrived on October 21, 2014, and Stacy was overjoyed to embrace motherhood. When FedEx called John in 2016, the family relocated to Germantown. A few years later, Stacy returned to college counseling at Memphis University School, once again helping young men and their families find the perfect college fit. Her CaringBridge page overflows with tributes from those she guided—testaments to the many lives she touched and the work that filled her with pride.
Stacy cherished attending Fellowship Memphis Church with her family and being part of a faithful small group that supported them for years. Her Bible study group remained steadfast, and more recently, a circle of women from Wellspring Church rallied around her. The prayers, meals, childcare, and countless thoughtful acts from these groups—and from many other dear friends— enabled Stacy and her family to savor their time together during this difficult season. She fought the good fight, forming deep bonds with fellow cancer warriors in Seattle (where she sought treatment for a year) and in Memphis. Those chemo-lunch buddies are now reunited, and Stacy is laughing with them once more. Stacy loved deeply, led bravely in her faith, and faced one of life’s hardest battles with daily gratitude to God for the strength He provided. Even in her final months—and on her last day— she rose each morning, with a warm heart, to welcome friends and visitors who stopped by. With a warrior’s heart and unwavering hope, she knew her ultimate peace awaited in the presence of Jesus.
Stacy was preceded in death by her grandparents, Loraine (Valenta) and Arthur John McCarty III, Grace (Akin) and William Payne Allen Sr., and her mother-in-law, Suzanne (Sue) Elliott.
She is survived by her husband, John Charles Elliott Jr.; son, Walter Allen Elliott; daughter, Darby Grace Elliott; parents, Phyllis (McCarty) and William Payne Allen Jr.; sisters Bryn and Derek Valenciano, Kelse and Tom Oakin, and Leigh and Robert Wallace; nephew Elli Oakin; nieces Brooks Wallace and Orla Oakin; father-in-law John Charles Elliott Sr. and his wife Laurie Stanton Elliott; sister-in-law Laura (Elliott) and husband Kevin Berdine; aunt Joan (Allen) and uncle Henry Hill; aunt Charlotte (McCarty) and uncle Jim Foster; and cousins Allison (Hill) and Dr. Michael Mitschke, Jeremy, Jackson, Gracie, and Janie Mitschke, Allen Hill, Lindsey and John Foster, Hayden and Addy Foster, Parker Foster, and James and Darby Foster and Millie Foster.
A fund in Stacy’s name has been established at Memphis Botanic Garden to receive contributions for a tree or dedicated bed of seasonal flowers planted in her memory. Stacy’s perspective on life and her approaching death can be heard on the Kanakuk Podcast episode of December 23, 2025, titled “O, Death, Where Is Your Sting?” with host Joe White, available at https://Kanakuk.com